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It's MY birthday today!
We're flying to Berlin in 3 hours!
Our 18 days Europe trip will start from Berlin, then down south to Prague, Vienna and Salzburg where we'll rent a car to drive north along Rhine River back to Berlin.
Can't write too much here cause we're leaving home soon. Wish us a fun and safe trip. Will blog about it with lots of picts when we're back on Sept 30!
We are going to honeymoon finally. Yeah!
It's a special date - 09.09.09. Want to write something on our blog @ 9:09pm on the Ninth day of the Ninth month in 2009. The number 9 in Chinese sounds alike to the word "longevity" in the language. So it's an auspicious number. Wish longlasting love, friendship, good health and good luck...
Tonight, I'm very sleepy as I'm still having jet lag after coming back from Hong Kong. So I'm going to nite nite early on 09.09.09...ZZZzzzzzz
No, "something to disclose" isn't about diving. Not yet time to announce the "something". Scuba diving is another thing. Our website homepage has everything we could think of doing together like "Eat Koogether. Travel Koogether. Play Koogether....".But we didn't know we would dive koogether. Right, Mr Koo loves challenges. He just wants to try everything. And I, a person who would freak out on roller coasters, went sky diving and snowboarding at black diamond with him. After flying up the sky (actually diving down), now down to ocean. What's next, husband?
3 hours pool class on Saturday morning
It is a 4 classes course that we're doing. 2 classes in pool and 2 in the ocean. Finish in two weekends. We have a book to study, a dvd to watch and exam to take. After finishing all these we will get certified and then we can go diving on our own everywhere on earth without any guidance.
Open water class - practice in the ocean on Sunday 1pm to 11pm
I scuba dived at Great Reef Barrier, Australia a few years ago. It was a tourist activity. So everything was much easier cause it was all set up and I wasn't required any knowledge at all. In this diving course however, I need to learn be my own and take care of all the equipments and my own life. That wasn't the hardest part. The hardest part, many students agree, is to put on the tightest suit on earth.
O, there's another difficult part which is to stand the one and a half hour boat ride from Long Beach to Catalina island. I already gave up the class and got my refund back because of this. I don't want to go back and take the boat ride again. It's a dive boat with oxygen tanks along both sides. Seats are hard and not comfy cause it's not a luxurious cruise trip. You can't sit back, relax and enjoy with the tanks at your back when the boat goes up and down, up and down for 90 mins. It's tough for me. One time is enough.
I didn't know you can barbecue on a boat. The captain is cooking hamburger and chicken for our dinner.
There isn't really much to see in Catalina ocean except some fishes and lots kelp. No coral at all. Very different picture from what I experienced in Australia. That's another reason I ain't so motivated to be back to Catalina again. Scuba diving is a heavy duty to me. It took us lots of energy and we were both exhausted at the end of the class when we returned to land at around 11 at night.
Mr Koo in full gear. Special thanks to Michael and Yvonne for generously lending us.
My conclustion is I didn't feel I was enjoying myself. Mr Koo isn't as vulnerable as I am though. He will finish the rest of the course and try to be certified. I don't mind him taking a "longer" break, may be something else will keep him busy before he will come up with another idea and put me into another challenge again.

A year goes by in a flash. It's June! We've been married for almost a year now. Just a few days away from our first wedding anniversary.
Hadi and I will be taking the 8th and half day of 9th off. I don't think I can concentrate if I have to stay in LA alone and go to work on those days anyway. To celebrate this special day, we'll revisit our church and reception site during the long weekend vacation. We've reordered the same wedding cake but in mini size this time of course. We didn't really taste it on the wedding day. I just remember it tasted good and lots of guests told me so. So having it again will allow us to really enjoy the favor of it.
Just writing a short note here like a preface to welcome June that we've missed and loved so much.
One word - Lazy.
What have I done? What have I been doing all these months and being so lazy to update our blog.
Well, I just don't feel like blogging. Have been just being with myself a lot. Hm... may be too much. Yes, being with myself but no one else (of course except my husband. We still try to keep our schedule to meet every other weekend. Either I fly or he comes). I didn't see any friends or relatives. Just wanna go home straight after work or stay home alone on weekend. O, but I found a new friend...Now I found out when a person HAD to BE alone, with nothing particular to be busy with (another word - no goal to pursue. Unlike when I was immersed in our wedding planning. Woke up every morning with only one word "wedding" in my mind), one would discover something new that he/she had never realized such thing could be so interesting before. In the past few months, I had finished the Twilight saga (yes, all four books in the series. And yes, I am now a fan of Robert Pattison. Oh, should I claim myself fan of Edward Cullen instead? Will that sound less crazy?). I had also read Wuthering Heights as well as Revolutionary Road. These two books were both finished in one weekend respectively. I kept reading and reading. Suddenly realized there were too many books I could read. Too much to finish in one's life.
I never like reading. Before the last few months, reading was like a task to me. Basically I read because I had to. Usually for school or exam. When I was still a student, I didn't find reading a hobby like lots of other people did. School had already given me too much to study. I rarely picked up a book unrelated to school. Time didn't give me a chance to taste the fun of reading.
Now I found it an enlightenment. Besides pets which are the general options, I think books are another dependable form of companions to humans. There's a lot of time in a person's life when he/she has to be alone. When it comes to a point that loneliness hits the bottom, and there's no power to turn on your computer/TV/video game......books may be your true friends.
Recently when I called up my friends or family (People whom I do not buzz often. May be once a month or every two months), their first question was the same, "You pregnant"? When I told them "NO", they had the same response too, "Why are you calling then?".
Well, my dear friends and family, I don't even want to try thinking if anyone would care about me when one day I really have a baby. You're now already so concerned about baby when it doesn't even exist yet. When I really have one in the future, I guess every call of yours will be asking about the baby not me. All my birthday gifts will all be baby clothes and baby toys!
Elizabeth Gilbert in her book "Eat, Pray, Love" said that to surely have a baby is like you are determined to have a tattoo on your face. Your FACE. Not other parts of your body where you can hide when you regret about it and don't wanna show. A baby is a big and serious decision. Hadi and I are both not ready yet. We are still enjoying the freedom which we will never have again if a new member joins in.
A friend of mine was even funnier. Since I haven't emailed her any of my latest pictures for awhile, she thought I got pregnant and kept the secret from everyone until I visited Hong Kong in the Fall holding my new born baby to reveal the big surprise. How imaginative she was! Alright, to prove that I'm not pregnant, I'm posting my very latest picture on this blog. (Looking fat doesn't mean I'm pregnant!)
The next time I call you, please don't wonder about the reason behind. It can be very simple - I miss you and just want to say hello.
Wouldn't realize it's the last day of February if dad didn't remind me. Didn't blog for the whole month. I didn't mean to but this 28-day-month, even though is short, wasn't easy for me.
I was very sick for a couple of days. Couldn't go to work. Couldn't move. I was like paralyzed. Left side of my neck n' back hurt. Muscles were stiff. I was in lots of pain
staying at home alone. Went to chiropractor. Felt like I was repeating the nightmare I had ten years ago when my body was hit by a van. Sandy and Hadi were by my side back then. But this time wasn't that lucky. I was on my own. This put me into deep depression. Didn't want to call any friends. Only a few close family knew. I found myself not wanting to talk when I'm upset. I used to share before. But now I believe one has to suffer his own physical or emotional pain. No one can actually help.
I sounded very negative. But don't worry it's over now. Otherwise I won't be typing all this. I'm cheerful again. It was just a dark cloud passing through. Recently, I keep myself very busy. I'm obsessed with a vampire love story created by Stephanie Meyer. Never found reading so wonderful. I'm not a reading person. But this "Twilight" wave has hit me strongly. It is making me finish dinner quickly once get home from work, and go to bed like 8:30pm so i can read the books for 3 hours in bed before I go to sleep. Hadi is getting jealous of the book cause I have been so concentrated n' ignoring him when he tries to talk to me. Um.. the series comes in four. So I have three more books to read. Sorry, my whole March is fully booked.
Feburary is the month of Valentine. Didn't do anything particular on the Valentine's Day even though I felt it quite special as this is our first V-Day after married. But I was grateful enough to have Hadi with me in LA on the day. I was going to blog about it. But the rest of the month didn't give me the mood.
Don't know what picture I should put to go along with this blog. We only took a few daily life pictures which I don't think are interesting enough to share. Well, the cherry blossom tree at the entrance of our house in SF is in full bloom now. It's beauuuutiful and delighting our family. Beautiful cherry blossoms in full bloom don't last long, nor does the dark cloud stay forever... :)
We'll soon be ringing in the Year of the Ox. New Year starts out fresh. Hadi and I, now Mr and Mrs Koo, are giving out red packets for the very first time in this upcoming Chinese New Year!
This BIG day used to provide me a significant chunk of my annual revenue, haha! Unfortunately it will only be expenses but not income any more which is one downside being married. O, but we're belt-tightening after the two weddings. Can we come up with some innovative things instead of cash? How about a coupon for a free dinner at the Koo house? Or may be a slip of greeting notes. Promise to be as fun n' surprising as fortune cookies.
Well, just kidding. Indeed, we're excited to hand out red packets to the youngers. We're gearing up. Got brand new dollar bills from the bank already. And looking for the nicest envelopes for our first Lai See. Actually there aren't many recipients. Hadi's only niece. I have a few cousins that count on one hand. Isn't a problem. Just that from now on, don't expect us to show up in Hong Kong during the Chinese New Year. Cause we'll be broke... :P
Since the new year falls on a Monday, I'm going to take the day off n' stay in bay area with the Koo family. Hadi's parents arrived on the same day of Obama inauguration but was just coincidence. They will stay a few months with us. I guess parents now become our only source of Lai See. Sigh....

This festive weekend, we'll visit friends n' family. Go "Yum Cha". Cook lots traditional celebratory dishes at home together. Probably make Shanghai wonton n' may be spring rolls which resemble gold bars. O, yeah, gold bars! Feasting with family makes the lunar spirit warm and merry.
Kung Hei Fat Choi! We're always looking forward to the new year with eager anticipation. Wishing everyone boundless cheer and prosperity in the year of the Golden Ox!
118 is not only my birthday but is also my anniversary with Hadi. November n' January are both the months that mean to my life. This coming Saturday will be our 11th anniversary. Yes, we've been together for eleven years now. It's really a day to celebrate. I'm thankful to the love from my husband.My best friend Sandy gave a speech at our Hong Kong Disney wedding. She probably wanted to go with the theme of Disney. She introduced us the prince and princess of the fairy tale. My heart disagreed with her at the moment. I didn't protest that night. But it's kept in me. And I feel like I have to clarify somewhere sometimes to express my thoughts.
I never thought of myself the one in a fairy tale. We had our wedding in Disney simply because I am a fan of it. It has been giving me very nice feeling since my first visit there where I felt warmth n' bliss. Neither I am a princess nor Hadi's a prince. That's too flattering. Indeed, our story hasn't been easy. We were always apart. And we're still apart even after marriage. We have had lots difficulties in the past eleven years. Luckily they were usually things other than the love between us. I had a very difficult time when I just started my career alone in LA. Hadi n' I always have problems about our status in the country. We're always not sure if we'll get a visa. Don't know if we'll find a sponsor. We question about our root n' not know where we can stay stably n' permanently.I love the recent Disney commercial "What will you celebrate". Hadi n' I had dealed with hard times together. But it is these obstacles that make us value each other more n' stay together stronger. I always feel blessed. My parents are divorced n' I basically grew up in a single parent family. But I'm thankful that I have a great mom. And get lots of love from my family n' friends. My story is made up of lots happiness n' unhappiness. But I'll define my life a happy one cause I see more laughters than tears when I look back.I don't know who will visit my blog n' read my words. I keep writing on our wedding blog even after getting married because I am telling myself my own story. Like a record or memoir when my memory won't be good one day. Then I'll still be able to see how I was once feeling n' thinking. I wish to read it after many other 11th anniversary. OOOooo, thanks for reading. Having you come across my words today, good enough to celebrate cause I have you listen n' share with me. BIG hug there! So...what will you celebrate today?
A few days before we set off to Boston for our new year vacation, a winter storm there almost made me change my mind to go to Hawaii instead. Surprisingly, it turned out a fun trip. Just a "little" chilly...

It was like below zero everyday. Snow everywhere. The sun came out but didn't warm us up. We had to wrap all over ourselves except the eyes. Water left in our rental car over the night turned into ice in the next day morning. Clothes pulled from the luggage was like just fresh from the freezer. We were the little shivering things in the big freezer. We talked with steam which went through the scarf that covered my mouth. I wore my warmest hat plus the down jacket's hoodie, still my head wasn't warm enough. Thick clothes made us stiff n' could hardly walk. Yet all these didn't stop us from getting around.Probably the SUPER cold weather was something new to us that made us excited. We had never been in such a cold weather. We go snowboarding. But believe me, it's totally different. Glad that I didn't choose to study in the east coast. It's a right n' happier choice staying in California where sun rises n' shines everyday :)
One of the targets of this trip was of course Boston lobster. So lucky to have lobsters four times during the trip. Main target though was to visit the prestigious campus including Harvard, MIT, Yale, Brown n' Rhode Island School of Design(RISD). They are gorgeous. Felt like I was in Europe.
Went to lots museums. Harvard Art museum was free cause the coat check guy was so nice to us. Harvard museum of Natural History, well-known for its glass flowers, also carries a huge collection of all kinds of animal specimen. I think they possess all creatures on the earth. MIT museum was a bonus on our last day. We just drove by n' didn't know there's such a place. It was fun but too scientific n' I don't have a brain for that. RISD museum was very interesting. Like it. ICA was insanely crowded. Was like people in the town had nowhere else to go. But actually there wasn't much to see except the building itself is stunning - the "must go" to Hadi. Worth to mention, their highlight art show by Tara Donovan was very inspiring. She uses stuff from daily life to create beautiful form of art piece.
My "must go" is Isabella Steward Gardner museum. The name is so beautiful already. The treasure inside was even more attractive. But one won't be able to tell until you go in cause the building outside is plain. No photo to share herer cause they were very strict about photographing. I hope you'll get a chance to go in person to see the beauty of it.
We counted down our new year in Boston. It was the coldest day of our trip n' had a snow storm. Didn't go to special place/restaurant but just stayed in our hotel. Bought some salad, dessert n' champagne from whole food. Had a pizza to go from a local store. Stayed warm in our room, bye bye to our amazing 08 n' cheered to 09!
We all learn something from the trip we take. This one was especially educational as we went to schools, museums n' historic places. Lots to share but can't include all here. I saw n' learned. Traveling in cold was a different experience. I'll probably pick a warmer place to go next time. But I'm sure I'll miss the white vacation sometimes in the near future.